Monday, August 15, 2011

Day Five! - 30 Day Challenge

Things you want to say to an ex


I'm sure you might be expecting some long winded you missed out on a  great thing blah blah blah kinds shpeel. There is just one thing I want to tell all my exes and that is
THANK YOU!
Realistically all my past relationships have shaped me to become the woman I am right now, and I love me as I am. Current relationships will continue to shape me into hopefully a better person for the times ahead. But I won't dwell on what didn't work out and what I was bad at or what you were bad at. It doesn't matter when I think about it.

To make a side note: on Twitter there was a #TT (trending topic) which was #MessagesToMyEx and some of the things people were saying...HOLLAYY!!! One girl tweeted thanks for Chlamydia...what's wrong with these kids?? I know I've tweeted some things I shouldn't have but whoa...sigh. Anyways, some other people tweeted some good things, others clearly were bitter and needed some closure or therapy or sumn. But who am I to say such. Anyways, I digress.

If you had a chance to tell an ex something, what would you say? Please do share.

The Empress

4 comments:

  1. I have to agree with you :)
    It's funny because that's what I've always thought and people would look at me like I'm crazy. I'm glad that's what you'd do as well.

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  2. Thanks for the comment Anonymous. Feel free to leave a name the next time :)

    I think a lot of people just haven't gotten to the point to let go and learn from the relationship and be appreciative of the lessons learnt. I'm glad that you have gotten to that stage and are a happy person

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  3. I would also like to say thank you... though mine is thanks for not calling anymore, t'was truly getting annoying.

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  4. LMAO Erika. Thankfully right. I'm happy for you

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