I think this is a very crucial point especially when you've just met somebody. Tell me, how the frankincense are you going to lie to me about simple things when you're trying to establish a bon/relationship with me? Now I don't mean relationship like man-woman-lovers relationship, I'm talking interaction between people relationship. I met this guy recently and he seemed cool and all. We've been talking quite a bit, can't wait to meet up again, rae-tay-tay (blah blah blah in other words) and then I find out this guy lied about something as simple as a Facebook account.....O_o yes, I said it - A FACEBOOK ACCOUNT! What ya got to hide bud?? He said he didn't have one and I immediately said cool. I know a few people who don't have Facebook accounts so that's normal to me. But somehow it didn't sit well with my gut. A few weeks later I randomly decided to search his name. Figured it would be interesting to see the other people in the world that had his name (yes I actually, genuinely believed that...I google my friends all the time - no I'm not creepy ]= ) then lo and behold, his profile shows up with a picture of him so I can't say maybe it was someone else lol. How do you think I felt? How would you feel?!?! Interesting... Of course I get on edge and begin to doubt everything this guy's said to me. My trust in you has immediately been broken and luckily for you partially lost. I don't think this guy realises how hard it is to get my trust back, but I continue. So I call him out on it and I get some excuse about him not using it much. I still don't buy in although I answer alright, cool cool to him. My mind is wondering what are you trying to hide?? Then he confesses he lied about his age and is actually 5 years younger than he originally said. I let that slide. Age is but a number, but this still doesn't change the fact that I think you're shady. Then he asks me what lies do I have to fess up to...-_- excuse me?? I enjoy a good laugh and good prank so I said I was actually born a man and had a sex change 3 years ago. Of course this guy probably shit his pants. Then I quickly told him it was a joke (see the difference). I also let him know that I don't lie.
Even after that confession session, I am still having doubts about this guy. I still cannot trust him completely. I'm not dismissing what has happened because my gut tells me there's something not right, something untrue, but still I'm not sending him packing. What am I not seeing? I want to know!!
How would you react if you were in my shoes? What do you think I should do? Leave a comment below and remember to check back for a response =)
Remember:
If you have nothing to hide, why lie?
The Empress
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